Bound what one packet can cost, and stop the hub eating its own loot

Selecting a character rewrote the entire store to disk, re-placed the
player, re-streamed its map chunks and broadcast a roster to everyone --
off one small reliable packet, at whatever rate a client cared to send.
Repeating a selection you already hold now answers yes and stops, and
select/create are paced per peer. Item moves and experience grants, the
two paths a client can trigger every tick, mark the store dirty and the
server flushes once per tick instead of once per event.

That flush also fixes experience quietly not being saved: grant_xp only
wrote when a level was crossed, and level is DERIVED from lifetime xp, so
the number nobody was keeping was the only number there is. A restart
rolled a character back to its last level-up.

The emergency escape ran in the hub, where completing it means
transferring into the instance you are already in: teleported to spawn,
healed to full, instanced loot dropped, every map chunk re-streamed, once
a second for as long as the key is held. The hub now opts out.

Ground loot evicts the oldest item when the floor fills. That is right
for a dungeon, which closes and takes its litter with it, and wrong for
the hub, which never closes -- a player dropping into a full floor
destroyed whatever someone else had left there longest, and drop is
edge-triggered per tick. A player's drop is refused instead; the world's
own drops still make room.

Also: a linkdead body is not in inst.peers, so closing a CLEARED dungeon
walked past it and left that peer's account and name in the dictionaries
forever -- with the new one-account guard, enough to lock someone out of
their own session. And several encoders wrote mini(size, 255) as a count
and then looped the whole array, which puts records after the count on
the wire; MAX_CLIENTS makes it unreachable, which is why it would have
survived to the day it was not.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/instances/instance.gd

@@ -47,6 +47,9 @@ static func make_lobby(instance_id: int) -> Instance:
 	inst.world.upgrade_npc = built["npc"]
 	inst.world.has_upgrade_npc = true
 	inst.world.spawn_point = built["spawn"]
+	# Nothing here to escape from, and completing the channel in the hub means
+	# transferring to the hub -- see SimWorld.escape_enabled.
+	inst.world.escape_enabled = false
 	inst.state = State.ACTIVE
 	# A single inert practice target so players can feel out the gun before
 	# committing to a run.